Eph_6:2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;)
Gen 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. Pro 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. 1Co 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Pro 19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.
We are all entitles to a Wife. If your marriae does not function as expected, go to the Lord, the creator of Marriage he will correct it. It belongs to him.
Find a wife, doe not indulge yourself in premarital sex! Do not do it; else half thy life will be wasted! Go to the Lord and enquire of him to give unto thee thy own wife/husband.
Mar_10:9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Proven In The Eyes Of God!
Think about it: There is nothing in your life worth having if it has not first been tested and approved. Every single thing that now functions well in its place, making your life what it is, had its beginnings in an idea, that became a prototype, which was tested until it became proven. Then it was manufactured and marketed. And now you use it regularly, and are happy with its performance.
you think that maybe God might be doing the same with you?
The Bible tells us that “God tests honest people.” His purpose in this is prove them, so that He can use them. And the test is more than fair. For He has promised that He would never let us be tested above what we were able to bear. In other words, He doesn’t stack the test against us, but actually tempers it to our ability to pass it.
He has equipped us for every good work, and He must show us that the equipment works. He does this by testing us. The Apostle Paul said, “God tested us thoroughly to make sure we were qualified to be trusted with this Message.” (1Th_2:3, The Message).
Remember the wise man who built his house on the rock? The rain and wind hammered his house just as it did that of the foolish man. The purpose of the storm was to prove the worth of his structure. In the same manner, then, the testing of the Lord in our lives only proves that the equipment He has given us to handle great and difficult challenges — works!
Can the Lord trust you? He can if you weather the storm, and pass the test!
Remember what happened to Joseph of old? He was sold into slavery by his own brothers! The Egyptians “hurt his feet with fetters; he was laid in irons. Until the time that his word came to pass, the word of the LORD tested him.” (Psa_105:17-19).
God had given great dreams to Joseph as a young man, but he had to wait for several years before his dreams came true. The waiting was not in vain. God used the time to refine Joseph as gold in a furnace. The harsh years were not for the sake of proving the dreams true, but for proving Joseph to be true.
The Lord’s refining process does the same in our lives today. It may be, my fellow traveler, that you are undergoing a test from the Lord, which is applied in love to insure that when your dream comes true — you will be true as well.
You will be proven in the eyes of God!
What a divine assignment. A mother is a role model to her children. She is the perfect picture the children look at for their first steps in life. You can tell by their speech when they play with friends on the streets; mostly, they will quote; “mummy said I can’t do that, mummy said she loves me, mummy bought me a panda! It’s all about mummy this, mummy that. This in the divine context implies that mummies are the role models for their children until a certain age at which they are let go for their own expedition to begin and learn from the worldly experiences after being shown the conjectural part of it by MOTHER.
Sometimes one at the age of 60 years is still caught saying my Mother taught me this. My Mother has been a good friend of mine; what do they mean? They intend to say that they came from a family; they were brought up by their own mother. Mothers are a source of life.
Transformed to Motherhood
Before the very concept of mother should come into being; God had and still has the same meaning from beginning of creation: Family. A mother is one who becomes known as one through the act family with a man who then is respectively called Husband. Family is God’s divine grace in the flesh as to increase his creation through human productivity. Humans are a grace from the Lord Jesus himself though it is clear today most people are lost due to the many things the world has brought before them to complicate their choices and follow unreal tracks of life. It is only through marriage that genuine motherhood is lived; a mother must always have a husband. When today’s instance is given, we have lots of the so called single mothers! In the first place one did not come to motherhood without experiencing husband in one night or day. This act however has been abused to the love for lust. If one should know or be reminded; these things are intended for family – Heb 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. This tells us that there is a proper way of becoming a mother. God is in support of marriage, he wants each one of us to have a husband/wife; Gen 2:24 – Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Lev 21:14 – note that in this scripture there are some restrictions under which marriage should legally occur. Therefore, since the age we are in is much damaged by the antichrist; the grace of the Lord Jesus is sufficient for all which is to say, whatever uncleanliness there is among the restrictions mentioned that should be void of marriage; the blood of Jesus is still accessible by faith to cleanse all such as mentioned. He is faithful that promised. He is forgiving. Just as his blood flowed from the cross that day, so does it to those who believe in him today. Take thoughtful meditation and do not think the Lord will reject you when you turn to him asking him to make you a wife/husband: Isa 1:18, Mic 6:2, Eph 1:6, Rom 5:20 – Moreover the law entered, that the offence might abound. But where sin abounded, grace did much more abound: [emphasis mine] it is not by works of righteousness that we have done, it is grace. The grace of the Lord Jesus – we have read this in the scripture.
Mother; if at all these conditions according to the word of the Lord are obeyed, there will be total comeback to the Lord and peace will once again reunite. When we have children in the way of the Lord, they are easy to train, to bring up because the Lord will be in support of such. Trust the Lord’s word; it surely comes to pass as he says.
Work and Family
True and I 100% agree that a woman a mother/wife as at this age must be well involved in the up bring of the family in view of the fact she must contribute to the family by means of work or financial responsibility. Look at it this way; is it not wise to take care of the children in the house until they are of age to have learnt from their mothers to stand alone? MAID/BABY SITTER: it is imperative today that almost each well to do house-hold has one in the house for the care of children not really of house work. Every mother/father has a way of thinking on how their children should be brought up – You know I am right when I say this! Now, here you go and get a maid/baby sitter – someone who has her own way of doing things, quite negative to your own ways/thought of child up-bring. She is here in this house to make a living by taking care of your children, teaching them things you do not know, if the kid has a problem with feeding, she may leave them alone to suffer that since she knows at the end of the month her salary will be paid – this is just an example. There is more to it than this. Think about it. Work can wait if seriously we must have responsible children in the future; I mean those who have husbands. I am speaking in the Lord’s way and not life’s way – I speak of living by faith and not by sight! Children are a blessing and therefore, should be natured with LOVE! The Love that you wish would have been given to you if your mother/father was there. Though we only realise that we were loved at old age.
Think about these things and then will you know how to embrace your family. The Value of family is of tremendous vitality. Come together and reason, especially you that still have an opportunity to make families – use this time to groom children that shall fear the Lord, it is a profitable thing, so rewarding on your own life when your children know the Lord and can pray for you, when they can trust in the God of Abraham. The Lord still has his plans for us, to give us expected ends. Psa 33:11 the counsel of the LORD standeth for ever, the thoughts of his heart to all generations. For the sake of we his children! Lam 3:26 it is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the LORD. Let us not rush, the Lord has the plans for us, if we live according to his word, we shall finally land into the place of his designation upon us. Dear Jesus we thank you! Heb_3:14, Heb_10:35; 1Pe_1:13. Jesus Christ, you are my life Alleluia!
Dear Lord, thou kind and loving father, ancient of days, creator of heaven and earth and all that is in them, we thank thee, Jesus we thank thee, holy spirit we thank thee! Thou art holy. Let thy name be glorified above all names that claim existence. We pray that thou abide with us, we plead the blood of thy son Jesus Christ upon all those that are given to marriage, and that they may praise thy name forever; we pray that thou manifest thyne strength upon their weaknesses that their doing may be of thee. That they may fear thy name forever and know thee and the power of thy son’s resurrection, father we thank thee, for protecting these marriages and making them know that thou art pleased with them in Jesus’ Mighty name. Amen. Thank you Lord Jesus for freeing us from the Law of No Marriages!